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Iovation Reduces Fraud For Online Dating Community

Whitelabeldating_iovation_loga PRESS RELEASE -- May 29 -- WhiteLabelDating.com has implemented iovation's ReputationManagerTM, a device-based fraud management service that helps reduce online fraud and abuse, across the company's portfolio of over 500 sites. To date, iovation has helped WhiteLabelDating.com successfully block over 1,200 fraudulent and abusive attempts within its network. FULL ARTICLE @ AD HOC NEWS

Mark Brooks: iovation is now live with several sizable dating sites. In a nutshell, you can collaberate with other dating site owners to kick the bad guys off your site.  They are funded by Intel Capital and SAP amongst others.  See iovation.com for a news clip with the CEO,  Greg Pierson. He describes iovation as a virtual crime fighter.  41st Parameter is another option.  (Disclosure: iovation and WhiteLabelDating.com are clients of Courtland Brooks)

Online Matchmaking Sites Court U.S. Muslims

Arablounge_logo WOMENS ENEWS - May 29 -- Even though El Jamal lives in the United States, she expects her route to marriage will follow the customs of her Palestinian family and many traditional Muslims. Neither El Jamal nor her parents think the Internet is the place for a Muslim woman to meet a suitor. However a growing online matchmaking movement has Muslim women elbowing aside courtship traditions from their computer keyboards. Sites, such as Arablounge.com, which has 275,000 members including Arab Muslims and Christians, cater to ethnic communities. Others, like Muslima.com and Naseeb.com, are for Muslims of all ethnicities. FULL ARTICLE @ WOMENS ENEWS

Matchmaking Sites Work Harder To Attract Clients In Slump

Dating_sites_loga_hodne DALLAS NEWS -- May 29 -- Along with the high-profile pay sites such as Match.com and True.com, a flood of free sites, such as PlentyofFish.com, niche sites and even social networks vie for amorous clicks. Match.com's nearly $350m in revenue and 1.35m paying subscribers place it atop the industry. True.com doesn't disclose revenue figures but its Internet traffic fell the most of any of the top 20 dating sites measured by ComScore in March, down 39% over last year. "The market for paying users of online dating is nearing its natural limit", said Jupiter Research analyst Nate Elliott. Free sites and niche sites for ethnic or gay daters are a greater lure, he wrote. FULL ARTICLE @ DALLAS NEWS

OKCupid's Investor/Partner Pitch

Okcupidnew_logo THE PARADIGM SHIFT -- May 28 -- OKCupid power point investor/partner pitch. Evidently Match.com has only 1.2m active users every 8 weeks. Meetic only has 400,000 active users and no other dating sites in the industry break 100k active members in two month time span!  Okcupid supposedly has 500k "active members" and PlentyofFish is excluded. FULL ARTICLE @ THE PARADIGM SHIFT

WhiteLabelDating Debuts Mobile Platform

Whitelabeldating_logo NETIMPERATIVE -- May 28 -- WhiteLabelDating.com has recently launched a mobile dating platform for its Singles365.com site. The new mobile platform, developed by Mobestar, will enable users to access their online dating services via their mobile for the first time. WhiteLabelDating.com will roll out its mobile services to all partners free of charge, allowing them to run their own mobile dating services alongside their regular online dating site, providing new revenue streams with no extra running costs. FULL ARTICLE @ NETIMPERATIVE

Mobestar Launches Its Own Branded Dating Site Using WhiteLabelDating.com

Mobestar_logo BUSINESS WIRE -- May 27 -- Mobestar launched its own branded dating site, 2nd Connection. 2nd Connection will be the company's first business to consumer (B2C) service and has been constructed using Mobestar's products and services. It will be aimed at the lucrative '30 plus' market. FULL ARTICLE @ BUSINESS WIRE

Mark Brooks: WhiteLabelDating.com is powering Mobestars's dating site.  Mobestar's key competitoin are Trilibis (powers Match and Webdate), Plutolife (powers a dating site that starts with L and ends in life), and Enpocket (powered Match in the past) are the leading competitors for Mobestar.  (Disclosure: WhiteLabelDating.com is a client of Courtland Brooks)

BharatMatrimony To Offer Health Check Ups

Bharatlogo MONEY CONTROL -- May 27 -- Metropolis Health Services India, experts in healthcare since 1981, and BharatMatrimony, India's leading matrimony portal, launched a joint initiative to promote premarital health check ups. Members of BharatMatrimony can avail the pre-marital health check up at special prices and also upload the certificate as part of their profile. Such profiles will be highlighted as "Health Profiles". Premarital health check ups help in preventing untoward instances of contracting infectious or sexually transmitted diseases, abandonment due to the same, reducing health risk for future progeny. FULL ARTICLE @ MONEY CONTROL
Mark Brooks: Honesty Online offered a similar check in the U.S.A. but there was very little call for a $200+ in-person identity verification, background check, and health check including an AIDS test.  Now Honesty Online offers a ~$10 background check.

World Dating Partners Teams With BuddyCheck

Worlddatingpartners_logo PRESS RELEASE -- May 27 -- World Dating Partners (WDP) have selected BuddyCheck to provide Age & ID Verification Services to its' members. The BuddyCheck Age & ID Verification solutions consists of providing a matching technology driven through match codes that will confirm or deny the potential member when signing up for the service behinds the scenes. Verification is provided in a real-time transactional environment often taking an average response time ranges from 2.5 to 2.8 seconds. FULL ARTICLE @ SMP

Japan Panel Urges Limit On Mobiles Use By Children

Japan_child_with_mobile AFP -- May 27 -- A Japanese government panel called on parents and schools to help limit the use of mobile phones by children to prevent them from accessing "harmful" information on websites. While about a third of Japanese primary school students aged 7-12 use mobiles, by the time they get to high school that figure rises to 96%, according to a government survey last December. The advisory council on education made the proposal to Prime Minister Yasuo Fukuda as children become more prone to crimes involving dating websites and bullying on Internet school bulletin boards. FULL ARTICLE @ AFP

Mark Brooks: I attended and spoke at the Asian social networking and internet dating conference in Tokyo earlier this month. 'Internet dating' seems like a dirty word in Japan, alas. The internet dating industry has developed a reputation for illicit encounters, under-age connections, and casual dating in Japan.      

Love Is Everywhere Launch

Therightone_togetherdating_loga PR WEB -- May 27 -- Paul Falzone, a matchmaker with more than 30 years of experience and CEO of dating service The Right One/Together Dating, believes that everyone has a soul mate out there waiting to be discovered. He is promoting his "Love is Everywhere" campaign. Monthly, Falzone will issue tips on where the best places to meet singles are for that particular time of year. The Right One/Together Dating do it the old-fashioned way: one-to-one interviews, caring guidance and a focus on compatibility. "The average initial length of time we spend with a client can be as much as three hours," says Falzone, adding that the process includes being interviewed by a matchmaker, getting personal matches based on extensive research and even running background checks on prospective dates to improve the safety factor. FULL ARTICLE @ PR WEB

Dating Site For Miners And Gold Diggers

Meeetaminingman TELEGRAPH.CO.UK -- May 26 -- An Australian dating service Meet a Mining Man is being launched with the promise to play matchmaker between gold miners and "gold diggers". It is targeted at fly-in, fly-out workers, who spend weeks at a time in dusty mining camps. The dating service will be launched this week in Western Australia, the state profiting most from the sale of iron ore and other minerals, including gold, to China. FULL ARTICLE @ TELEGRAPH.CO.UK

Matchmaking, The Ultimate Government Service

K_ny_times_clanku NY TIMES -- May 25 -- Next month, Justin Mei, 20, will be on his way to the Love Boat. That's the nickname for a month long cultural tour of Taiwan sponsored and partly subsidized by the Taiwanese government. The program, officially called the Expatriate Youth Summer Formosa Study Tour to Taiwan is designed to expose young people with Taiwanese roots to the motherland through courses in Mandarin, sightseeing and traditional arts. This trip has a reputation for flirtations, flings and wedding proposals. According to Census Bureau figures, the percentage of Asian women born in the US who marry Asian men has declined to 37% from 59% since 1994. The proportion of American-born Asian men who marry Asian women has also dropped, to 52% from 65%. Taglit-Birthright Israel, a program that sends young American Jews on 10-day trips to Israel, is less guarded about its romantic record. A survey conducted in 2000 and 2001 by United Jewish Communities found that American Jews who married since 1996 had an intermarriage rate of 47%. The Israeli government partly sponsors Taglit (Hebrew for "discovery"). FULL ARTICLE @ NY TIMES

16% OF Canadians Found Love Online

Plentyoffish_logo CALGARY HERALD -- May 24 -- Canadians seem to love being in love, a new survey by Ipsos Reid has found. 7 in 10 Canadians are romantically in love right now -- with more women (80%) than men (67%) feeling amorous. The poll also found that 16% of Canadians had found love online, with the younger demographic having more success. Only 7% of those aged 55 and older had started a relationship online. But Markus Frind, founder of online dating site PlentyofFish.com, says the average age of his members is 37. "It's so obvious that people would use online dating over other methods," said Frind. "If you're 35 and single, what are the chances of you meeting someone at a bar or a grocery store who is exactly what you want?" FULL ARTICLE @ CALGARY HERALD. Also in the OTTAWA CITIZEN, the NANAIMO DAILY NEWS, the WINDSOR STAR, the VANCOUVER SUN, the STAR PHOENIX and the WINNIPEG FREE PRESS

Mature Woman Seeks Suitor For Dates And Perhaps More

Demi_moore_ashton_kutcher FINANCIAL TIMES -- May 24 -- Toyboywarehouse.com is aimed at strong independent women who don't want a pipe and slippers man", said its founder Julia Macmillan. She came up with the idea for a more targeted site after seeing how many friends were dating or marrying younger men. The site, launched 18 months ago and has 10,000 registered members. Julia is keen to expand internationally, starting with a US launch in the autumn. Mark Brooks, a US-based dating consultant and blogger with Onlinepersonalswatch.com says this part of the market may have been overlooked: "There is not too much in the way of competition in the so-called cougar niche. There are few niches left in the online dating industry and this is one of them. It should do well." Hitwise says there are 1,368 UK dating sites, up from 1,123 a year ago, of which the top 5 (Plentyoffish.com, SexintheUK.com, Gaydar.co.uk, DatingDirect.com and Match.com) account for 37% of visitors. Mr Brooks says: "You'd have thought the big sites would be trouncing the niches but they're just not." FULL ARTICLE @ FINANCIAL TIMES

Mark Brooks: You would think that biggest is best, when if comes to internet dating sites.  But many singles have a particular 'thing' that is extremely important for them.  They might want to just date a christian, or an Asian, or someone who has kids, or someone who is into bondage.  Internet dating sites have enabled singles to explore and discover and develop more specific preferences. There's a niche out there for most preferences these days.  Many singles want to choose from more specialized pools of singles. 

FriendScout24, Christoph Mempel - CEO Interview

Bild_009 OPW INTERVIEW -- May 24 -- FriendScout24 is the top internet dating site in Germany and Switzerland and ranked #3 in Spain. See rankings. Here's our interview with the CEO, Christoph Mempel. - Mark Brooks

What is FriendScout24's founding story?
FriendScout24 was founded 1997 under the name People United by private founders in Cologne. In 2000, People United was acquired by the Scout24 group, a private finance company, and was renamed FriendScout24. The company then moved from Cologne to Munich, where most of the Scout24 companies are located. In 2003, the Deutsche Telekom Group, the largest telecommunications group in Germany, which has an internet presence, bought the whole Scout24 group, including FriendScout24.

How many people work at FriendScout24 now?
Right now we have 90 employees, and we think by the end of the year there will be about 110. We are constantly growing. To give you an idea of our development: we started with 5 to 10 people after the acquisition by Scout24.

How would you characterize FriendScout24 against your competition, and how is the service different?
In Germany, we have with 7 millon members the largest database of singles. FriendScout24 is the market leader and stands for reliable and first class service. For example, we constantly work to secure the authenticity of the user profiles. We want to offer our users everything they need, to get the best chance of finding the right partner by offering them a big variety of interesting singles. I think this is the most important thing to know about FriendScout24.

I see you're in Germany and Spain, Italy, Austria and Switzerland. With your top 3 positions in Germany, Spain and Switzerland, how are things going in Italy, which I hear is the emerging market for Internet dating.
This year, we could add the Netherlands to that list. We launched our service in the Netherlands at the end of January. Regarding the Italian market, we're doing quite well. We entered Italy almost a year ago and the market situation is similiar to Spain. The challenge right now is getting more and more online traffic in Italy. We support our brand with a lot of press work, furthermore we are working on identifying different channels, which we can use to push the online traffic and the business opportunities in Italy in general.

How have you reached out to users via mobile phones?
In Germany, we launched a mobile application very early and we were one of the first companies to implement such a service. However, this was no focus for our business for quite a while, because the technical development of mobile phones was not that fast. Now it is emerging again. Therefore we will extend our mobile application features, and will also implement new product innovations in this field.

Have you also considered launching applications on social networks such as Facebook and other local networks?
It's interesting that you ask, as this is also on our list this year. We believe, that this is not a big topic right now. In Germany, the social network companies, including Facebook, are ready to start with a German site and there are further popular sites, e.g. StudiVZ. We are monitoring this segment of the market very seriously and will - based on the developments - check the appreciation for such applications.

One of the arguments that I hear time and time again is that social networking is pulling people away from the Internet dating market. Is that true or do you think the two can work together?
I think they can work together. We don't see a shift in people going away from dating sites to social network sites and I believe it's still a different business. Two years ago, when the hype about social communities started, we weren't sure if there would be an impact on our work and if this would draw a lot of users from our sites. In reality, we can't see a big impact of social communities on our work, because the focus is quite different. Besides, social networks are successful in Germany, and especially StudiVZ, in terms of page impressions, is a very highly ranked site, regarding the younger target group. However, our members are not only looking for a social network, but also for a targeted search of a soulmate. We have 9,000 registrations daily, so they don't appear to be a real threat.

What are your goals for FriendScout24 over the coming year?
One of our main goals for this year is to secure and expand our market leadership in Germany. We see a market consolidation right now in Germany. For the last 3 – 4 years everyone expected a consolidation, but it didn't happen in Germany. Therefore it is important for us, to keep and to strengthen our position. There is a lot going on in the German market. I'm sure you're informed about Meetic, which acquired Neu.de, a big player in Germany.

A second goal is to expand our European presence. We have a few other countries on our list to launch our product this year.

Talking about product innovation, we do have a lot of convenient features for our users. It's our main focus, to offer a big variety of attractive features which make it easy, fun and successful to find a partner.

Matchmakers To Introduce Quality Certification System In Tokyo

Weddingrings TMC NET -- May 23 -- A total of 2,871 complaints over marriage services were filed with the National Consumer Affairs Center of Japan in 2007, surging about 80% from 2000. An industry association set up by eight major marriage-services, including O-net Inc. and Zwei Co will introduce a system to certify their quality of service. Under the new system, companies will be checked if their service is meeting a service guideline compiled by METI and the industry association. According to METI, an estimated 370 to 3,900 firms are providing marriage services, with service content ranging from traditional meeting arrangements to Internet-based matchmaking. About 600,000 people are said to have used the services of these companies. FULL ARTICLE @ TMC NET

Privacy And Online Dating Are Not Mutually Exclusive

Sparkbliss_logo THE CANADIAN -- May 23 -- Today, about 40% of single adults use online dating. The problem with most dating sites is they offer no privacy. On Sparkbliss, a free dating site founded in March 2008, each member develops a private network of trusted friends and families who can view his/her profile and make romantic introductions on their behalf. Members have complete control over who they invite into their private network. FULL ARTICLE @ THE CANADIAN

Social Networking Conference Speaker

Intsnc_01 OPW -- May 22 -- The Social Networking Conference in San Francisco July 10th-11th is shaing up very nicely. A very highly esteemed keynote speaker has been confirmed today and will be announced shortly. Hint: If it wasn't for this man, the social networking industry probably would not exist. Watch this space. - Mark Brooks

Homosexuality Around The World

OPW -- May 22 -- This is a fascinating map of how homosexuality is recognised and persecuted against around the world.  In South Africa gay marriage is recognised. Two countries over gays get 11+ years imprisonment in Malawi and Zambia. Further North, in the Sudan, gays are executed.
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FastLife Speed Dating In China

Fastlife_logo PRESS RELEASE -- May 22 -- FastLife Speed Dating, the international singles events service, is set to launch in China on 31st May 2008. FastLife will invite Zhenai.com's (China's leading online dating website, formerly known as 96333.com) eight million registered members to participate in stylish speed dating events in Beijing, Shanghai, Shenzhen and Guangzhou. FULL ARTICLE @ FAST LIFE

Mark Brooks: Speed dating is popular in China. Irena and I spent 2 months in Shanghai last year after the Asian Internet Dating Conference. The main challenge for Chinese idating companies is monthly billing. Very few Chinese users have credit cards. So dating sites bill via cell phones. However, the government effectively halved the maximum amount that can be charged on a recurring basis...from ~$3 to ~$1.50 a month. 96333.com is run by Dr Song Li, a frequent, vocal and very knowledgeable attendee of the internet dating conferences.

MatureFreeAndSingle.com Aimed At The 50s

Maturefreeandsingle_logo PR WEB -- May 21 -- There were 20m people aged 50 and over in the UK in 2003. The number is projected to continue increasing, with the over fifties accounting for over 50% of the UK population by 2020. And they are becoming increasingly active and socially mobile too. MatureFreeAndSingle.com is a new a niche dating site aimed at the over fifties singles in the UK. MatureFreeAndSingle.com is owned and operated by T3 Limited. T3 partnered with White Label Dating, who provide all back end systems and fulfilment. FULL ARTICLE @ PR WEB

Bone Fish Goes Live With mCast

Bonefish_logo BUSINESS WIRE -- May 20 -- White label dating provider, Bone Fish Ltd works with mCast to deliver SMS notifications and alerts to opted-in members of their dating and networking affiliate sites. mCast is Mobestar's end-to-end mobile content distribution system. Mike Fitzgerald, director and co-founder of the Bone Fish programme and service said: "We needed a system that would drive new users to our website via their mobile phones – and to date, the application has given us an unexpected conversion rate of over 12%." FULL ARTICLE @ BUSINESS WIRE

eHarmony Feels Confident Overseas

Eharmonylogo LA BUSINESS JOURNAL -- May 19 -- More than 43,000 marriages in the United States last year were between people who met through eHarmony. eHarmony recently reported a 25% increase in registered users. In all, 20m people have used eHarmony over its eight-year life. eHarmony has started introducing its questionnaire-intensive system to Western countries recently, and soon it will try its luck in China. A panel of psychologists, through focus groups in China, validated the translations of questionnaires and found that cultural differences matter little when it comes to measuring personality types and values. eHarmony launched the site in other English-speaking countries – first Canada, a year ago, then Australia in February. The UK will get its own version in June and other European countries will follow. FULL ARTICLE @ LA BUSINESS JOURNAL

Match.com Revenue Boosts 10%, jDate Up 5%

OPW -- May 20 -- Match.com net revenue reached $ 90.5m in Q1 2008. Revenue growth was driven by an 8% and 12% increase in international subscribers and revenue per subscriber, respectively, and 6% growth in revenue per subscriber domestically. Spark Networks reported Q1 revenue for jDate.com of $8.7m, an increase of 5% compared to the Q1 2007. Q1 revenue for General Market Networks (American Singles) was $2.6m, a decrease of 48% compared to Q1 2007.

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PEER 1 Wins Telly Awards For PlentyofFish Testimonial Video

Plentyoffish_logo PR NEWSWIRE -- May 20 -- PEER 1 Network Enterprises, a provider of online IT infrastructure, is the recipient of four Telly Awards for outstanding achievement with its original short online videos. The winning videos, episode one of "Growing Pains" and the PEER 1 PlentyofFish.com customer testimonial, were selected among thousands of entries for their humor and creativity. PEER 1's PlentyofFish.com video customer story won three bronze awards in the Video categories of Infomercial, How-To/Instructional and Comedy. The story focuses on the PlentyofFish.com business, as the largest free online dating site. FULL ARTICLE @ PR NEWSWIRE

Clean Up Those Bogus Profiles, Pronto!

Soudcovske_kladivko PUBLIC KNOWLEDGE -- May 19 -- Over the years, the CDA (Communications Decency Act) has been criticized for giving Web sites too much of a free pass. Under the act, website couldn't be held liable for content posted by others. The scope of the CDA's immunity has been called into question. The Fair Housing Council filed suit against Roommates.com because the site provided pull-down menus that allowed users to choose what kind of roommate they wanted based on race, sexual orientation and gender, the court found that they were responsible for developing content and that they were not entitled to immunity under the CDA. Another suit has been filed against AdultFriendfinder because someone created a fake profile that "reasonably identified" someone. They complained and FriendFinder removed the profile, but it continued to appear in "teaser" ads. The court dismissed the plaintiff's tort claims for defamation and intentional infliction of emotional distress—but didn't dismiss her claim based on her "right of publicity". Since right to publicity claims vary from state to state, sites would have to tailor their practices to the lowest common denominator and make sure they followed the most restrictive state laws, or face the possibility of being liable for violating a state intellectual property law. FULL ARTICLE @ PUBLIC KNOWLEDGE

Match.com Expands Overseas

MatchlogoREUTERS -- May 19 -- Match.com will expand its ties to Terra, Latin America's largest Internet portal, to become the exclusive online dating provider in seven new countries in the region. The company also has a partnership in Latin America with Microsoft Corp's. Match will also launch a new service with Australian partner ninemsn. FULL ARTICLE @ REUTERS

Mark Brooks: Match will be competing with Date.com, Amor.com, and with the FriendFinder network's Amigos.com.

Do I Smell Sexy?

DnastrandscientificdatingLA TIMES -- May 19 -- Dating website ScientificMatch.com plays matchmaker using DNA and smell. ScientificMatch.com launched in December and is now offering a discounted lifetime membership fee of $995, boasts a panoply of "member benefits" for its scientifically matched opposite-sex couples: better sex, increased fertility, healthier kids, less cheating and more orgasms. FULL ARTICLE @ LA TIMES

SexSearch Joins RevenueGateway Network

Sexsearch_logo EARTH TIMES -- May 16 -- Affiliate network RevenueGateway has teamed up with SexSearch, the adult personals website. RevenueGateway is giving affiliates $65.00 per sale. FULL ARTICLE @ EARTH TIMES

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The Internet Alliance, Emily Hackett - OPW Interview

Internet_alliance_emily_hackett_pho OPW INTERVIEW -- May 18 -- The Internet Alliance is watching your back. Emily Hackett is the Executive Director.  Here's more on what they do and how they protect the interests of social networking and internet dating companies. - Mark Brooks

Tell me about the Internet Alliance? What's your mission?

The IA monitors political and legislative activity in all 50 states and is active in about half the Capitols each year, focusing on states where Internet legislation and policies are being debated. The IA lobbies to pass bills that make the Internet work better and defeat bills that stifle or limit ecommerce. Our mission is to promote consumer confidence and trust in the Internet so it can become the premier marketing medium of this century.

Who are your leading members in the Online Dating and SNS industries?
IAC (InterActiveCorp) Barry Diller's group, which includes Match.com. AOL, eHarmony, and Yahoo! We also represent a broad section of the industry including Amazon, AT&T, Comcast, Experian, United Online, and VeriSign.

Why do you believe that the online dating industry shouldn't be regulated?
A well-educated consumer can maneuver the online and offline dating world safely. There is a tremendous amount of information available online to help consumers safely approach any dating service.

IA members believe that online dating background check bills offer no real protection to consumers, unfairly discriminate against online businesses and take an ill-advised approach with regard to protecting consumers who use the services. There has been no outcry from consumers for background checks, nor failure of the market to respond to those consumers who want them. These bills are discriminatory. Dating services that do business via voicemail messages, newspaper personals or faxes of user's profiles are all exempt. It doesn't make sense to impose onerous regulation on online segments of this market while exempting competing services that use other media.

What are you focusing on most now in terms of legislation that might affect the dating and SNS industries?
We have been focusing on a variety of bills that require background checks, background check disclaimers or verification of age.

Online Dating:
Many states don't make their criminal records available in easily searchable forms. Consequently, the only "real" option under these bills is to use private vendors. Some of the bills would require that such a vendor maintain a database whose information contains more than 170,000,000 criminal records. Coincidentally, this just so happens to be the exact figure publicized by a large private vendor owned by ChoicePoint, Inc. called RapSheets.com.

Criminal databases maintained by private vendors may not be able to get accurate information from every state. These databases may only contain felony convictions. This means someone arrested for a domestic violence or sex related offense, but had that arrest pled down to a misdemeanor, would make it through the screening. Background checks could easily be circumvented. The dangerous result of this gaping hole in the system is that a woman on the other end of the computer will be led to believe that she is communicating with a "safe" customer, because that felon appears to have passed a "sex offender registrant search."

This is special-interest legislation that will do little to protect consumers using online dating services and is to the benefit of one company. By pushing for background check disclaimers, True.com is asking the Legislature to give them the edge they have failed to accomplish in the marketplace. The New Jersey legislation doesn't require background check disclaimers for advertisements, newspaper personals, telephonic dating services, or in-person matchmaking services.

Social Networking:
The IA's highest priority is keeping children safe online. The IA supports bills that would require convicted sex offenders be subject to continual supervision of all incoming and outgoing email as well as periodic unannounced examinations of the person's computer by a parole officer, law enforcement officer or assigned computer information technology specialist. The IA supports funding police and prosecutors who need additional tools like training to investigate, identify and prosecute cyber criminals. The IA would support making it a felony for any person 18 years of age or older who uses a computer to knowingly solicit a minor.

Social Networking Task Force:
IA members are participating in the Harvard Berkman Centers' Internet Safety Task Force, developed as part of a recently announced Web safety initiative from MySpace and the nation's attorneys general. The task force is evaluating various Internet safety technologies, including social networking age-verification tools, and will produce quarterly reports on its findings next year.

True.com has persuaded state legislatures to sponsor bills that favor their practices. Where are we now with this legislation?
The newly passed New Jersey law, which the IA opposed, requires Internet dating services offering services to New Jersey members to provide a safety awareness notice to customers and a notice disclosing whether criminal background screenings on its members have been performed. It was signed January 13, 2008 and became effective May 1, 2008.

An Internet dating service that does not conduct criminal background screenings of it members is required to provide notice of that fact in one of three ways: electronic mail message, on the members profile or on the service's website.

If an Internet dating service conducts criminal background screenings, then the service shall disclose whether it has a policy allowing a member who has been identified as having a criminal conviction to have access to its service to communicate with any New Jersey member; shall state that criminal background screenings aren't foolproof; that they may give members a false sense of security; that they aren't a perfect safety solution; that criminals may circumvent even the most sophisticated search technology; that not all criminal records are public in all states and not all databases are up to date; that only publicly available convictions are included in the screening; and that screenings don't cover other types of convictions or arrests or any convictions from foreign countries.

What can these industries do to protect themselves?
Educate members on how to protect themselves online. Join the IA. The state legislative process can be a nightmare. The IA team consists of seasoned professionals who are excited by the challenge and the prospect that our work will help make the Internet marketplace grow and prosper.

Background Checks On International Matchmakers

Paragraph_symbol NEWS -- May 16 -- Legislation, sponsored by Senator Paul A. Sarlo, would require any owner or employee of an international matchmaking organization to apply for certification from the Division of Consumer Affairs (DCA) and submit to a criminal background check to operate in New Jersey. The bill S1813 now head to the full Senate for consideration.

California Court Clears The Way For Gay Marriage

Gay_marriage PRESS RELEASE -- May 15 -- The California Supreme Court overturned the state's ban on gay marriage, making California the second state in the country to allow same-sex marriage. "We at myPartner.com are so excited about today's California Supreme Court Ruling," says Patrick Perrine, myPartner founder, CEO and Relationship Expert. "For over 5 years we've been seeing more and more gay men looking to establish long term relationships. Our company is devoted to helping gay men find those lasting relationships." FULL ARTICLE @ MYPARTNER.COM

OBC Spoof: eHarmony Ends 'One Night Stand' With Walk Of Shame

Onlinebootycall_logo PR NEWSWIRE -- May 15 -- Contradicting its marriage-oriented brand, eHarmony ventured into unfamiliar waters last week by releasing a newsletter titled "Navigating the One Night Stand." The newsletter instructed singles how to engage in appropriate booty call etiquette. The ensuing backlash from members forced eHarmony to take the proverbial "walk of shame" back to their community and issue an apology. OnlineBootyCall.com, recognizing the special needs of this segment of the population, caters to proud singles who "enjoy being single." OnlineBootyCall pokes more fun at eHarmony's embarrassment by releasing its spoof of eHarmony's marriage compatibility advertisements. FULL ARTICLE @ THE EARTH TIMES

Meetic Plans To Double Earnings

Meetic_logo BLOOMBERG -- May 14 -- Meetic, Europe's biggest Internet dating service, plans to double earnings in four years by charging more of its Web-site users and expanding in Germany and the U.K. Meetic, which bought DatingDirect in the U.K. and Neu.de in Germany in the past two years, may make "smaller, targeted'' purchases in Nordic countries such as Sweden or Denmark. Meetic's earnings jumped 52% to 26.5m euros ($41m) in 2007. Meetic is adding two new Web sites, one catering to women, one to young people. FULL ARTICLE @ BLOOMBERG

TRUE.com Increases Advertising Spend to $75 Million

True_logo PR NEWSWIRE -- May 13 -- TRUE.com intends to increase its advertising budget by approximately 70% to $75 million over the next year. TRUE ranks as one of the top spenders in Internet advertising across all industries, according to ClickZ Network, the largest resource of interactive marketing news. The expanded budget will primarily serve as a means to grow TRUE's awareness in key niche online markets. FULL ARTICLE @ INFORMATION WEEK

OmniDate Helps Daters Find Real Love In A Virtual World

Omnidate_logoCHICAGO TRIBUNE -- May 11 -- Paula Weisz's favorite place to take her dates is the Millennium bar. For her dates, she doesn't get dressed up, doesn't put on makeup, and doesn't even need to leave the comfort of her living room sofa. Weisz is among the growing number of people who are exploring virtual dating. "The gap can be filled by this simulated world that's safe, virtual and fun," said Ravit Abelman, who, with her husband Igor Kotlyar, founded both the OmniDate.com beta (showcase) site and the OmniDate program. "People can move from the online world into the real world and not be strangers." Through OmniDate, users choose avatars, that will represent them on their dates. Virtual dates can include touring a museum gallery, going to a bar, listening to the user's choice of music or even going to the beach. In 2006, researchers at the MIT Media Lab found that people who interacted with each other in the virtual world through avatars had better chemistry in face-to-face meetings than people who had only viewed profiles. Many sites, such as Woome.com and Speeddate.com, are using video chatting to make the online dating experience more realistic. But for some daters, being on video may be intimidating. FULL ARTICLE @ CHICAGO TRIBUNE. Also in COLUMBIA NEWS, THE TORONTO STAR and INDIANA GAZETTE

 Mark Brooks: Igor and Ravit have done a great job building a dating app that really gets daters more emotionally involved and connected. It's a lot more interesting than flat IM. OmniDate is a client of Courtland Brooks and sponsor OPW, btw. Let me know if you'd like a demo, or email Ravit directly.

Date.com Partners With Enlaso

Datecom_enlaso_loga MARKET WIRE -- May 9 --  Date.com and ENLASO, a provider of enterprise language solutions, partners to localize Date.com's network of dating sites into numerous languages. Date.com, Matchmaker.com and Amor.com will be translated into Spanish, Portuguese, and German. Before the end of 2009, Date.com plans to have its dating sites available in 18 languages to better accommodate its growing subscriber base from outside the US and to assist it in marketing itself internationally. FULL ARTICLE @ MARKET WIRE

Customer Care Reputation Studied Online Before Making Purchases

Cfmrbrieflogo RESEARCH BRIEF -- May 5 -- Among a new study "Exploring the Link Between Customer Care and Brand Reputation in the Age of Social Media," by the Society for New Communications Research, there is a growing group of consumers using social media to research companies.

59% of respondents use social media to "vent" about a customer care experience
72% of respondents research companies' customer care online prior to purchasing at least sometimes
84% of respondents consider the quality of customer care at least sometimes in their decision to do business with a company
74% choose companies/brands based on others' customer care experiences shared online
81% believe that blogs, online rating systems and discussion forums can give consumers a greater voice regarding customer careless than 33% believe that businesses take customers' opinions seriously
FULL ARTICLE @ CENTER FOR MEDIA RESEARCH

Mark Brooks: Internet dating site users will often ask other users what sites work for them. So, the best way to increase your margins over the long term is to tune your dating site to it gets real results as fast as possible.   That means culling your database regularly of dead profiles, and doing more with email marketing, and improving your compatibility profiling. Internet daters want dating sites to do the work. They want dates asap. 

Marco Koeder On Mixi Internet Dating In Japan

OPW -- May 9 -- Marco Koeder, Executive Manager of Cybermedia, talks about what the Japanese do for internet dating in Japan at the Asian Social Networking and Internet Dating Conference. 

Marco Koeder On The Use Of Avatars In Japan

OPW -- May 9 -- Whilst at the Asian Social Networking Conference in Tokyo today, I asked Marco Koeder, Executive Manager of Cybermedia, about the use of avatars on Asian SNS. 

Parship Doubles In Size

Parshiplogo PR NEWSWIRE -- May 8 -- Parship, the online matchmaking service, announced a turnover for 2007 of 46m Euros, which represents an increase of 100% over the previous year. Parship now operates in 14 countries, including the UK and Ireland, employing a total of 150 people. According to Jupiter Research there will be an average growth for the whole dating sector in Europe of 20% in the current year. FULL ARTICLE @ IT NEWS

Like Jangl, TalkPlus Losing Its Voice As Well

Janglkratkelogo GIGAOM -- May 7 -- Michael Cerda, former CEO of Jangl along with the cofounder, Ben Dean and three other Jangl employees is joining Jajah. "The company was finding its groove in the marketplace, but our investors though it wasn't enough for us to keep going, and decided not to fund us", Cerda said. Jangl had raised about $9m in VC funding from Storm Ventures, Labrador Ventures and Cardinal Ventures. Cerda explains the rise and fall of Jangl on his blog. Jangl is not the only VoIP company to nosedive. We have heard from reliable sources that TalkPlus, is going nowhere fast. Michael Toepel, who was the CEO recently left, after the company failed to get new investment to keep going. FULL ARTICLE @ GIGA OM

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White Labeling Rant

Whitelabeldating_logo OPW -- May 8 -- Affiliates built FriendFinder to a $300 million a year revenue company. But affiliates don't want to build someone elses brand. They would rather build their own brand, and brand equity. I worked with FriendFinder as an affiliate manager in 2003 and have been surprised that they have not pushed their white labeling products more, since then. FriendFinder would far rather promote their own brand, as would most dating companies, but a number of white labeling companies are on the rise now. You can find a list here. (White Label Dating, a client of Courtland Brooks and sponsor of Online Personals Watch, is one of them, and our recommended provider.) 

White labeling is the last big opportunity in internet dating because it allows mega-affiliates, and entrepreneurs, and online media of all types, to build their own brands and utilize the economies of scale of working in a network. The little guys get economies of scale. The guys who have lots of traffic, but don't have the time or inclination to build their own dating site can use white labeling to get up and running quickly.

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2 Million And Counting

Ashleymadison_logo PR NEWSWIRE -- May 7 -- AshleyMadison.com, the world's largest infidelity dating service, announced today that their membership base has doubled in just one year to 2m members. With 85% of all new members hailing from the US, Ashley Madison boasts members in every state, including Alaska and Hawaii. California tops the list of fastest growing states with an incredible 205% increase in membership since last year. FULL ARTICLE @ THE EARTH TIMES

Flirting Online A Major Struggle

Woome_logo STREET INSIDER -- May 7 -- According to WooMe survey, nearly 3 out of 4 single online adults (72%) find flirting online more difficult than in person, citing the inability to observe body language, gauge chemistry and assess physical appearance as major contributing factors. 61% of single adults say looks are most likely to attract them to someone within the first minute of an introduction. Only 17% thought sense of humor was most important and an even lower 9% said they value intelligence most. "With WooMe, people meet face-to-face via webcam in fast and fun live introductions where they can decide if they are 'wooed' in one minute and move on if they are not", said Stephen Stokols, CEO and co-founder of WooMe. FULL ARTICLE @ STREET INSIDER

Internet Therapy To Save Marriages

Eharmonylogo COURANT -- May 7 -- eHarmony claims its scientific system is responsible for 118 marriages a day. The site has expanded into couples counseling in the past two years with eHarmony Marriage, an online therapy service for people who are married or in committed relationships. There's no traditional talk therapy involved. Instead, couples answer an extensive questionnaire and receive a computerized assessment of their relationship's strengths and weaknesses. Based on that information, eHarmony prescribes a series of self-directed exercises and interactive videos that target their trouble areas — communication, intimacy and conflict resolution, for example.

myPartner Keeping It Honest

Mypartner_honestyonline_loga PRESS RELEASE -- May 1 -- In a move to keep its site as honest as possible, myPartner.com is adding Honesty Online, which certifies profile information. The optional Honesty Online certification will verify name, address and date of birth before running a background investigation to check for any criminal records. Members of myPartner who opt for the certification will have the Honesty Online stamp of approval on their profile. FULL ARTICLE @ MY PARTNER

LoveAccess.com Renamed to eLove.com

Therightone_togetherdating_loveacce PR INSIDE -- May 5 -- The Right One and Together Dating, a traditional dating service expands into the online industry to offer a new level of service to singles. "We wanted to expand online, so we searched for a service we could purchase that would fit the safety demands of our clients,"said Paul Falzone, CEO. The company purchased LoveAccess and renamed it eLove. Mark Brooks, analyst and consultant to the online dating industry and editor of Online Personals Watch, commented, "LoveAccess.com has been an innovative dating service. eLove.com is a top tier domain name, and will help the service the branding traction it deserves at it moves towards competing directly with the likes of eHarmony." FULL ARTICLE @ PR INSIDE

Mark Brooks: Disclosure - The Right One and Together Dating, along with LoveAccess/eLove.com are working with the Courtland Brooks team.

Match.com Launches 'Insiders' Guide'

Matchlogo PR NEWSWIRE -- May 5 -- Match.com launched the "Insiders' Guide", a new source for singles to get insider secrets and reliable advice from current Match.com members, as well as former members who have already found love on Match.com. Part of this advice includes suggestions on how to write the ideal profile, as well as how to take the next step once they have met someone they really like. FULL ARTICLE @ PR NEWSWIRE

Pakistanis Flirt On Facebook

Facebooknove DAILY TIMES.COM.PK -- May 4 --  In Pakistan, it is not easy for girls and boys to interact with each other, so Facebook has become quite handy. Unlike a matrimonial site, we are free to interact and exchange information with anyone we like, free of charge," pointed out Ayesha Ahmed, a Facebook user. Education institutions are taking steps to ensure that students don't waste time on such websites. Beaconhouse National University in Lahore has blocked Facebook in its computer labs because it represents a big "distraction" for students. FULL ARTICLE @ DAILY TIMES.COM.PK

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AnotherFriend Seeks Ad Partners

Anotherfriend_logo THE SUNDAY BUSINESS POST -- May 4 -- AnotherFriend.com, which claims to be Ireland's largest online dating agency, is actively seeking advertising for the first time since its launch eight years ago. The site, which operates partly out of Poland, has launched a new translated version of its site for Ireland's 250,000 strong Polish population and plans two more niche product launches in the next few months. Grainne Barry, managing director, said the site had already carried some advertising from brands such as Guinness and Cadbury's, but it was now targeting €250,000 in additional revenue this year from advertisers and hoped to double revenues overall. Last year its turnover was just below €1 million. FULL ARTICLE @ THE SUNDAY BUSINESS POST

Mark Brooks: Numerous dating sites offer advertising.  Email me at mark@onlinepersonalswatch.com if you have a budget and would like referrals to any of them and I'd be happy to forward your email. 

Online Dating Losing Its Stigma Among College Students

Chemistry ORLANDO SENTINEL -- May 1 -- According to data from Match.com, there has been a 12% increase in college-age students, 18-24, joining its program since 2005. Also, 12% of Chemistry.com users are 18 to 24 years old. Additionally, 32% of 100 random UCF students surveyed via Facebook said they would consider using an online dating site.